I'm SEXY and I know it...do you?!

Have you ever realized just how sexy you really are?  Like REALLY KNOW that you are DROP DEAD SEXY?  Do you really believe it?  It took me many years to be able to say (and believe) "I'm sexy and I know it!"...as she typed with LMFAO's hit song of the same title playing on Pandora behind her.

I ' M

S E X Y

AND   I 

 KNOW IT

Merriam Webster defines sexy as "sexually suggestive or stimulating and generally attractive or interesting."  That underwhelming definition does not help much to convey today's message.  I personally prefer the synonyms listed for SEXY including 'bodacious, desirable, dishy, hot, luscious, and toothsome'.  Oh to be a luscious and toothsome woman and to be 'of palatable flavor and pleasing texture'!!!  
OK, so now that we're all warmed up, we can get down to business...

I can only speak from a SEXY woman's perspective.  Sexy begins with a state of mind.  You FULLY believe in your attractiveness and suddenly realize that you are wonderful exactly the way you are.  For me, that didn't happen until I was a little older (early 30's).  I finally realized that I am pretty amazing just because I'm me.  Once you get to that point, the rest should get a little easier.  
First off...stop comparing yourself to other women.  You are YOU!! You are beautiful and sexy just as you are.  You will never be (insert millionaire actress/singer/athlete here) so stop getting down on yourself that you aren't some other woman that you can't or won't ever be, because you are uniquely YOU.  

BE YOUR OWN KIND OF SEXY

Own your 'hot-ness' and never apologize for it.  Take compliments when people give them and NEVER DISMISS THEM! Walk into every single room you enter with a smile and look people in the eye, even at Publix.  You will shock most people, but who cares. You are TOO SEXY to be concerned about that.  Get a mani/pedi AND a massage. Buy something RED to wear.  Oh, the power of RED!  Buy something silky and beautiful to wear under your clothes and wear it on a plain old Tuesday to your desk job, you naughty girl.  You will be ready for Tuesday NIGHT by the time you get home...and your significant other will be pleased to find out they will be having YOU for dessert. Better yet...one up yourself and buy some ULTRA-SEXY and FUN temporary  ta-ta-toos® .  What fun!!! 
You don't call them fun bags for nothing...
Temporary ta-ta-toos®
For just a few dollars, you can say something naughty, or nice...or both.  Imagine the look on his/her face when you take your blouse off next Tuesday to reveal something like Let's Celebrate or Welcome Home.  Your significant other will think they forgot about their birthday and just hit the SEXY lottery all on the same plain old work day. And well, let's be honest.  They did.  I mean look at you!!! You are gorgeous girl! Beautiful!!
Most importantly...you are SEXY!!! 
Now get out there, SPICE it UP, and show me what SEXY looks like.  
Work it!! 
Own it!!